I asked a few friends for answers, and most of us just scratched our heads. Overwhelmingly, we heard this was the case and women wanted answers. If you can be honest and open with your spouse about your sex life, you can often get to the bottom of this without even reading this blog.
There has been some media discussion about this answer. Unfortunately the original answer has been selectively quoted and used out of context. The suggestion was made that the person answering the question, both a husband and wife, might be supporting rape in marriage.
Sex and Intimacy. My husband, Greg, and I have travelled together for years in order to speak at marriage events. We love doing this!
The father of three, 44, repeatedly raped or beat his wife and has been jailed for 12 years. A rapist husband who treated his wife as a sex slave during their 24 year marriage has been jailed for 12 years. The father of three, 44, repeatedly raped or beat his wife - on one occasion while she was pregnant with their fourth child.
Every relationship can go through dry spells when your partner is suddenly less interested in sex than you. It may a short-term problem related to stress at work or other issues that have driven your partner to distraction. Even more commonly, a sudden, hectic schedule—ranging from end-of-year exams to a do-or-die work deadline—can leave your partner exhausted and uninterested in anything more than sleep or a night in front of the TV.
Sex and Intimacy. Let's switch gears for a moment and explore how your husband's sex drive is a gift to you. No, you didn't read that wrong, and it's not a typo!
In reality, things are usually much different, and one of the biggest things that guys seem to struggle with when it comes to marriage — if pop culture and Google searches are to be believed — is married sex. Add things like bills, kids and career woes to the mix, and you have a decidedly non-sexy scenario lined up. This person probably sees you at your best and worst, day in and day out.
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A WOMAN had sex with 18 men in one night while her husband watched — and she says it was the "best thing" for her marriage. The swinger called Louise, who's in her mids, says her partner even handed out condoms to the blokes during the orgy. Louise from Sydney in Australia spoke about her extreme experience on the Sex Files podcast.